They have such a huge impact on athletes don’t they?
The impact can be positive or negative.
For the most part I come across good coaches but every once in a while I scratch my head in equal parts wonder and horror.
One of my clients had a guest coach run practice lately. I’ve been working on confidence with this client for months. In one session this coach ripped her to shreds. Seriously.
I couldn’t believe it. I had to question the validity and accuracy of the coach’s comments. To remind my client of her strengths and tools. She came around eventually.
It’s hopefully a blip now but it had a negative impact on her.
On the opposite side of the spectrum, there’s a great coach from one of the ski racing clubs I’m working with this winter. His kids love him, he’s well respected in both the coaching community and with parents. His athletes benefit by his presence and guidance. All good things.
I have my own coaching story.
My family moved to access better coaching when I was ski racing. I went from having the best coach of my career to the very worst coach ever at what was a crucial point in my path. He was punitive, negative and I could not relate to him whatsoever. He was partially responsible for my decision to end my ski racing career. I often wonder what would have happened had I kept my great coach.
Coaches matter. Good coaching matters.
I always tell athletes to make sure they ask for what they need from their coaches. Coaches want to see their charges do well. For the most part, they care. They are not, however, mind readers so make sure to communicate what you need from your coach.
A heartfelt thanks to all the coaches who had a part in shaping my ski racing and had a positive impact on my life.