Today’s post is dedicated to a very special man. He was a good friend to me when I needed him most. Today he opted out of a friendship with me in an attempt to seek balance. I respect his decision but his departure has left me feeling sad. I’m going to miss him.
He was there for me when I was going through a very difficult time with my relationship, he was the first person I reached out to. His absence leaves me feeling a little less whole somehow.
I wish he had spoken up before instead of avoiding me and told me how he felt. Instead he’s walked away. I can’t help but feel rejected, angry and sad.
It also makes me think about how I treat my friends. It’s not fair if all a friend does is dump on you, it is unbalanced. But it takes two to tango in any relationship. If a friend constantly keeps stepping on your toes, it’s your responsibility to speak up and say something. Otherwise all you end up with are bruised toes.
I am mending a bruised heart.
Goodbye my friend, thanks for being there for me, I wish you well.